On the first day of the New Year's Day, at a family gathering in Li County, Changde, Hunan Province, my father said while drinking, "No betrothal gift for 20000 yuan. I hope my daughter can marry out as soon as possible, so that the family can be quiet.".
The woman, who was 94 years old, said that in recent years there have been frequent reminders of marriage. She also has several cousins of similar age who are also single.
Although it is said that this is a joke made by an old father after drinking, it has become a social problem, that is, young people are increasingly difficult to find objects, more and more single, and more and more late married.
Some may not have met the right person or the right person. They may have met you, but they haven't seen you.
Now that the society is developed, it is difficult to find a target. Some people have high vision and hope to find a good-looking, tall, good condition, stable work and good personality.
Some may also be struggling to find objects because the surrounding environment is not comparable.
It is not difficult to find that there are many older leftover men and women in the city, but there are few leftover men and women in the countryside. Most of them got married early.
It may be hard to find objects in the city because of busy work or high vision. In contrast, in the countryside, they were married in their early twenties. At a very young age, they were mentally immature. After going out to work for a few years, they met more people and saw the broader world. They had more experience, more temptation, more mature ideas, and regretted getting married early and having children early.
The result is either derailment or divorce. Feelings have become weak. There are always quarrels and fights. Finally, the family has broken down and become a tragedy.
Therefore, do not hasten marriage, do not hasten birth. Couples who are urged to make do with themselves at will may have to spend a lifetime of pain together.